I Want a Boyfriend: 23 Ways to Make Your Dream Guy Come to You

I Want a Boyfriend: 23 Ways to Make Your Dream Guy Come to You

Ladies! Stay attentive, for we are taking you on the journey of self-realization and self-growth.

 Yes, you heard it right. You may wonder what it has got to do with wanting a perfect guy to come to you?

 Well, here is the thing. When you want a boyfriend, you first must be sure of the kind of boy you want to

 keep in a relationship. 

Many girls claim that I want a boyfriend—he could be anyone! No, you want your dream guy, and

 you can only attract him if you are groomed yourself as well. That does not mean you are doing it for 

the other person, but you are doing it yourself. Self-care and self-love should always be prioritized. 

It will make you confident in your skin, and confidence is the biggest attraction of all. 

Why do you want a boyfriend?

Ask yourself this question: why is there a need to have a boyfriend? Is it because you're not happy with 

yourself or the surrounding situations, and you want an escape? Escapism is a prevalent thing in human

 behavior. People tend to ignore their shortcomings by becoming dependent on other people.

Well, this could be harmful. Extremely harmful if you must emphasize. Such a need will only leave you

to worst-off even after getting a boyfriend in the long run. Make sure that you are well prepared 

to be in a relationship, as relationships are about fun and responsibility.

However, everyone wants love! That is basic and natural. 

 

You want a boyfriend – Here's how to go about it the right way

Now, enjoying a boyfriend is natural to desire as love is a primary human need. 

But the most critical question is, what to do when you want a boyfriend? We will help you through 

the whole process by giving you 23 ways that will make your dream guy indeed attracted to you. 

Let's dig into it!

1. Be sure

Ask yourself. Is it the want for a boyfriend, or is it something else? Are you looking for love, or are you 

just wanting to cover up the hole inside you by being with someone else? Many times, we feel 

incomplete because we are damaged from inside. If that's the case, no one else can fix that. 

Only you can heal yourself by contemplation and meditation. Once you are sure, you can always enjoy 

the company of a loved one, and it will always be long-lasting.

2. Enjoy being single

Realize that looking for love does not mean staying unhappy with yourself. Self-love comes first for a 

reason. It gives you the stability which is necessary for living with others. Also, when you are satisfied 

with yourself, no person on earth can become your anchor point. Self-reliance is a big blessing. 

Enjoy that!

3. Know your worth

Why should you know your worth? Well, because ultimately, that is what attracts people around you. 

Especially the kind of people you want to attract. If you are confident with yourself, you will surely attract 

people who appreciate you and know your worth.

4. What do you want?

What do you want in your future boyfriend? Be sure of that. Do not stay aloof till the last moment as it 

can waste plenty of your time and the other person's time. Enlist the qualities in your head.

5. Meet people

Don't stay indoors if you are trying to make other people reach you. If you want a boyfriend, then you 

might want to meet new people. That will enlarge your pool of options.

6. Try new things

You may ask why? Well, trying new things will open up doors to new realities of life. It will also lead you 

to meet new kinds of people. You will discover so much in it.

7. Be open

Don't be shy to the person if you want to let him know that you are open to love. This is the 21st century, 

and women go and get it! 

8. Be confident

Confidence is the jewel here. It can not be emphasized enough. Being confident in your skin means 

walking tall and keeping your posture in good shape. Your interactions and gestures with other people 

depict your confidence.

9. Slow down

Do not be quick to judge. Take things slow with people. If you think this guy is perfect to be your 

boyfriend, then give it some time. People tend to show their authentic selves after some time. 

10. Have fun

The whole process should be fun. When you love yourself, you find joy in everything that you do for 

yourself.

11. Be kind

Kindness is a big turn-on. It will attract the right kind of people towards you. The people who are kind 

themselves. No one gets anything by being mean. It only leads you towards the company of mean 

people. Mean people do not make great partners except in movies.

12. Learn to flirt

Flirting is an art. It is like a constant puzzle that you leave in front of the person that you like. It makes 

him want you more. Meanwhile, he is not sure if you wish to him that much. However, he is certain that 

you are into him in a way.

13. Make sure you like him

That should be your priority. If you do not like him and you claim that 'I just want a boyfriend.' Coming 

into a relationship to have a boyfriend can end up in hurt for both of you.

14. Be patient

Patience is the key. You might attract a guy, but him coming to you might take some time. Meanwhile, 

do not any attempt to be desperate. 

15. Watch out for red flags

Do not date the wrong guy when you are in the process of taking it slow. Look out for the bad things 

and the good things. People can be full of surprises.

16. Learn something

Learn things about the other person and make decisions accordingly that if you are compatible or not. 

Meanwhile, learn many different things about life that will answer your desire to do when you want a 

boyfriend?'.

17. Be comfortable

Be comfortable in front of the guy that you would want to come into your life. Seriously, those nervous 

gestures will only make it look bad, as confidence is the ultimate win for everything.

18. Let go of expectations

Realize that no one on this planet is perfect. Your dream guy also might not be! Everyone has some 

pros and cons. Learn the bad things about others and settle with a person whose imperfections least 

bother you.

19. Take breaks

Do not always roam around searching for a guy. Make time for yourself and do things for yourself. 

For instance, take yourself to dinner at a cozy restaurant! 

20. Keep your standards

Your standards should be your priority. Do not date anyone who falls below your standards. 

It will only end in disappointment for you. Your standards should be realistic, though! 

21. Prioritize yourself

You should always be your first love. It would be best if you were a strong anchor for yourself. 

Then only the people around you may stick for long. Also, if you don't love yourself the most, 

no one else will either.

22. Stay busy

Keep yourself active in productive activities. Sometimes it is just the feeling of boredom that leads us 

into things that I want a boyfriend. Be sure it's not just boredom.

23. Be honest

Honesty is the supreme tool to stay happy. Stay open to yourself and the other person, and things will 

fall right in place. On the other hand, where there is a lack of honesty, things end up disastrously.